There are superficial ways to become a man magnet, such as smiling, making eye contact, looking away, making eye contact, looking away, smiling more, maybe touching your hair, licking your lips… and these can intuitively invite the man to come and say hello. How are you feeling? What are your emotions? Do you allow yourself to feel them? On reading Emotional Intelligence the first time and completing the quesetionnaire, sadly and shockingly, I wasn't even on the scale.

Then there are deeper more genuine techniques that lead to life changing events, such as finding your true love. However shock results can be an agent for change. Do you check in with your feelings daily? Do you channel your feelings such as turning anger into motivation to swim laps or pump iron at the gym? Who or what can help you learn about your emotions? There are many books, courses, and coaches. They all agree on a few things, you need to feel the emotion.

Where do you feel it in your body? The strategies to feel it and remove it vary, however a common denominator is that the presence of your fear resides somewhere in your body. For example, your fear of intimacy and rejection may reside in your stomach, or your fear of change and life may live in your knee. I was at a Cashflow Conference last weekend where someone was cured of his lifelong terror of public speaking in eight minutes. Again the techniques vary.

Love your inner child. There are so many visualization strategies on this one. Just yesterday I did a wonderful one from the Blockage Buster course, as part of my own coaching that I receive. How can anyone give advice or coach others, if they themselves are not accountable and have no mentor or coach themselves? This step is all about being real. When you can begin to love yourself in a genuine way, you can begin attracting genuine love.